Innersexions
Innersexions is Debonee's prior (2013/2014) podcast exploring issues of LGBTQ, sexuality, faith, & art. Each episode is a conversation with an expert in two of these subjects, discussing the intersections between them.
Innersexions is Debonee's prior (2013/2014) podcast exploring issues of LGBTQ, sexuality, faith, & art. Each episode is a conversation with an expert in two of these subjects, discussing the intersections between them.
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Art is This Wildly Dangerous Thing
Ronn Johnstone, (now former) Chair of the Theatre Department at Anderson University in Indiana, and professional actor, takes us into the world of Plato, Dickens, "Bagger Vance", Dante, Spielberg, "Lars and the Real Girl" and much, much more to examine the questions such as, "Why does art matter?", "What's the connection between news and entertainment?", "Christian versus Secular - is that even a thing?". We'll explore the hermeneutics of suspicion, the grammar of creativity, sh$tmonsters, bazookas and ooooooodles more. It's an intellectual romp not to be missed. Heads up - we had a few blips in the Skype call, so you'll hear a few hiccups. |
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Built Like an Amazon
Glynnes Speak (nee Pruett) owns Orange County's Best Comic Book Store (OC Weekly 2013), Comic Book Hideout in Fullerton, CA. In this episode we explore the intersection of sex and art, as we look at images of women in comics throughout history. How do comics reflect pop culture? How can you read American cultural history in Wonder Woman's costume? What's the connection between mutants and the civil rights movement? Blue suits or garter belts? Why don't more women read comics? When men draw women... Cool World, Roger Rabbit... What kind of marketing strategy works best for women entreprenuers in a "boy's club"? Who's the coolest chick in comics? Pornography and Sailor Moon...What women are making waves creating art? Did comics escape the general suckage of the 90s? Speaking of suckage, we even hit on Twilight. and so much more... Check out the Hideout here: comicbookhideout.com |
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Queer Lessons for Churches on the Straight & Narrow
"Debates are raging over queer lives in both churches and political sphere. These debates usually produce two, very polarized sides representing seemingly irreconcilable perspectives. But what if we were able to start the conversation over? Imagine if the entire conversation about queer lives and Christian faith had its start in your living room or your own local congregation." This is the premise of Cody J. Sanders new book, "Queer Lessons for Churches on the Straight and Narrow". Cody encourages us to take a fresh look, not only at the content of issues, but the process by which we address them.
Debonee talks with Cody about the book, breaking down the various ways the Church could be learning from the LGBTQ community. We'll talk about ideas around Relationship. Community, Faithfulness, Love, Violence and even Forgiveness.
Cody's website: http://www.codyjsanders.com
Article on forgiveness (mentioned in the podcast): http://www.codyjsanders.com/for-exodus-international-is-forgiveness-possible/
BUY THE BOOK! : http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Lessons-Churches-Straight-Narrow/dp/0989575314
"Debates are raging over queer lives in both churches and political sphere. These debates usually produce two, very polarized sides representing seemingly irreconcilable perspectives. But what if we were able to start the conversation over? Imagine if the entire conversation about queer lives and Christian faith had its start in your living room or your own local congregation." This is the premise of Cody J. Sanders new book, "Queer Lessons for Churches on the Straight and Narrow". Cody encourages us to take a fresh look, not only at the content of issues, but the process by which we address them.
Debonee talks with Cody about the book, breaking down the various ways the Church could be learning from the LGBTQ community. We'll talk about ideas around Relationship. Community, Faithfulness, Love, Violence and even Forgiveness.
Cody's website: http://www.codyjsanders.com
Article on forgiveness (mentioned in the podcast): http://www.codyjsanders.com/for-exodus-international-is-forgiveness-possible/
BUY THE BOOK! : http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Lessons-Churches-Straight-Narrow/dp/0989575314
Trans* Images in Pop Culture: The Oscars Edition
Gender Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, and blogger Dara Hoffman-Fox joins Debonee to continue the conversation on images of trans* people in pop culture. We'll explore film, television and journalism to understand how transgender people are portayed, and the public reaction. In this "Oscar Edition", they look at Ellen's Liza Minelli joke, and Jared Leto's win for "Dallas Buyer's Club". Who is qualified to play transgender roles? Is art responsible for changing culture? What is the places of gender identity within stories? They even mess with Texas - and that's just the beginning...
With a shout out to Eleven Jessica Groothuis, they look at Silence of the Lambs, The Fosters, Glee, Katie Couric, Carmen Carrera, LaVerne Cox, Janet Mock, Piers Morgan... it's all here!
Dara's website offers amazing and plentiful resources for people of all genders to learn more about more expansive gender identity and expression: http://darahoffmanfox.com
Gender Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, and blogger Dara Hoffman-Fox joins Debonee to continue the conversation on images of trans* people in pop culture. We'll explore film, television and journalism to understand how transgender people are portayed, and the public reaction. In this "Oscar Edition", they look at Ellen's Liza Minelli joke, and Jared Leto's win for "Dallas Buyer's Club". Who is qualified to play transgender roles? Is art responsible for changing culture? What is the places of gender identity within stories? They even mess with Texas - and that's just the beginning...
With a shout out to Eleven Jessica Groothuis, they look at Silence of the Lambs, The Fosters, Glee, Katie Couric, Carmen Carrera, LaVerne Cox, Janet Mock, Piers Morgan... it's all here!
Dara's website offers amazing and plentiful resources for people of all genders to learn more about more expansive gender identity and expression: http://darahoffmanfox.com
Actor Robbie Rist takes the Four Topic Challenge
Actor and musician Robbie Rist ("Sharknado", "Doc McStuffins", "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles", "The Brady Bunch", The Mockers. The Popdudes, Theme Music and so much more) joins Debonee to see if they can organically discuss all four pillars of the show: LGBTQ, sex, faith and art. Tune in to learn more about the reason to do art, John Denver's rockin' image, the connection between porn and contemporary music, what happens when Cousin Oliver meets X-rated Carol Brady, the great "Energy Transfer Experiment", the real function of religion, dealing with depression, the specificity of happiness and loads more...
Actor and musician Robbie Rist ("Sharknado", "Doc McStuffins", "Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles", "The Brady Bunch", The Mockers. The Popdudes, Theme Music and so much more) joins Debonee to see if they can organically discuss all four pillars of the show: LGBTQ, sex, faith and art. Tune in to learn more about the reason to do art, John Denver's rockin' image, the connection between porn and contemporary music, what happens when Cousin Oliver meets X-rated Carol Brady, the great "Energy Transfer Experiment", the real function of religion, dealing with depression, the specificity of happiness and loads more...
Sex Addiction on Film: "Don Jon" & "Thanks for Sharing"
Debonee talks with sex addiction expert, and certified sex addiction therapist, Bill Herring, about problematic sexual behavior, and the insights from the films, "Don Jon", and "Thanks for Sharing". How accurate or helpful are the portrayals? How do we even define 'sex addiction'? What causes people to act out? Young men who pledge to refrain from masturbation...??
Debonee talks with sex addiction expert, and certified sex addiction therapist, Bill Herring, about problematic sexual behavior, and the insights from the films, "Don Jon", and "Thanks for Sharing". How accurate or helpful are the portrayals? How do we even define 'sex addiction'? What causes people to act out? Young men who pledge to refrain from masturbation...??
A Christian Response to Transgender Youth
You've heard a lot on the news lately about laws that are changing to accomodate transgender youth. In this episode, ordained minister, psychologist, and sex expert, Dr. Bill Stayton (ThD, PhD) walks us through a basic understanding of what "transgender" means, how it affects children, the medical ramifications of hormones, and more. How should Christians approach an understanding of something that some people might think is 'deviant'? Debonee and Bill will discuss 'acts' versus 'values' as a paradigm for grasping sexuality and gender, and provide resources for families who want to learn more.
You've heard a lot on the news lately about laws that are changing to accomodate transgender youth. In this episode, ordained minister, psychologist, and sex expert, Dr. Bill Stayton (ThD, PhD) walks us through a basic understanding of what "transgender" means, how it affects children, the medical ramifications of hormones, and more. How should Christians approach an understanding of something that some people might think is 'deviant'? Debonee and Bill will discuss 'acts' versus 'values' as a paradigm for grasping sexuality and gender, and provide resources for families who want to learn more.
Pillow Talk: The Psychology of Erotica
We're bringing sexy back, as artist and psychotherapist Pitaru joins Debonee to discuss erotic photography, and the psychology behind the process and the images. This Valentine's Day, we'll talk about the gift of intimacy, the metaphor of being seen, creating a story and the preparation process for a shoot. You'll learn how her therapeutic background influences her work in the studio and tricks to turning on the sexy.
Listen to explore the differences between erotica and pornography, sexism in art, beauty versus body parts, and the importance of the Personal.
You'll learn where Pitaru gets that sexy accent, (and how it affects her clients), where her own limits lie, and her fantasy subject.
www.pitaruart.com
www.therapistdiana.com
We're bringing sexy back, as artist and psychotherapist Pitaru joins Debonee to discuss erotic photography, and the psychology behind the process and the images. This Valentine's Day, we'll talk about the gift of intimacy, the metaphor of being seen, creating a story and the preparation process for a shoot. You'll learn how her therapeutic background influences her work in the studio and tricks to turning on the sexy.
Listen to explore the differences between erotica and pornography, sexism in art, beauty versus body parts, and the importance of the Personal.
You'll learn where Pitaru gets that sexy accent, (and how it affects her clients), where her own limits lie, and her fantasy subject.
www.pitaruart.com
www.therapistdiana.com
Don't Hide Behind Your Skirt: Female Empowerment in the Arts
"I know that my pieces won't be in a history book. They're going to be in girls' closets."
Artist Aurora Pringle talks with Debonee about her new zine, "Don't Hide Behind Your Skirt", a memoire of her abusive childhood. From a place of strength and creativity, Aurora speaks on the challenges that women face in the world of self expression, why she has as heart for young women, the connection between men and violence, the tough part of being in healthy relationships, talking back to trauma, how hard it is to be a teenager, definitions of feminism (and what's up with young women who just don't get it?!?!), balls and creativity, the zine as an art form...
Find out why Katy Perry is making Aurora angry, but Beyonce gets two thumbs up. Goldiblocks, Grrrl Power, Spice Girls and more...
Also, get the details for LA Zine Fest and the launch party for "Don't Hide Behind Your Skirt".
www.auroralady.com
"I know that my pieces won't be in a history book. They're going to be in girls' closets."
Artist Aurora Pringle talks with Debonee about her new zine, "Don't Hide Behind Your Skirt", a memoire of her abusive childhood. From a place of strength and creativity, Aurora speaks on the challenges that women face in the world of self expression, why she has as heart for young women, the connection between men and violence, the tough part of being in healthy relationships, talking back to trauma, how hard it is to be a teenager, definitions of feminism (and what's up with young women who just don't get it?!?!), balls and creativity, the zine as an art form...
Find out why Katy Perry is making Aurora angry, but Beyonce gets two thumbs up. Goldiblocks, Grrrl Power, Spice Girls and more...
Also, get the details for LA Zine Fest and the launch party for "Don't Hide Behind Your Skirt".
www.auroralady.com
Grace for the Cake: Where Christianity Meets Sex Toys
Guest expert Jamie Deason is a professional consultant for Pure Romance, a company that sells sexual toys and enhancements with a whole lot of education along the way. Debonee discusses the ins and outs (cough) of the private women-only parties where ladies can shop, laugh and learn in a safe and fun environment. Are there differences in how Chrstians approach sexuality, and how does faith come into play? Who are the biggest clients (you'll be surprised!)? From safe sex to intimacy, theological schisms regarding the body/soul duality to TheMarriageBed.com, let us hit your intelletual G-spot with converstional good vibrations...
PureRomance.com
https://www.facebook.com/jamie.pureromance.87
Guest expert Jamie Deason is a professional consultant for Pure Romance, a company that sells sexual toys and enhancements with a whole lot of education along the way. Debonee discusses the ins and outs (cough) of the private women-only parties where ladies can shop, laugh and learn in a safe and fun environment. Are there differences in how Chrstians approach sexuality, and how does faith come into play? Who are the biggest clients (you'll be surprised!)? From safe sex to intimacy, theological schisms regarding the body/soul duality to TheMarriageBed.com, let us hit your intelletual G-spot with converstional good vibrations...
PureRomance.com
https://www.facebook.com/jamie.pureromance.87
LGBTQ People and the Radical Inclusivity of the Emerging Church
Click through to youtube to watch the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-gHTOpb5oc
Debonee talks with Pastor Phil Shepherd, aka the Whiskey Preacher about whether or not queer people should be included in church life. The conversation visits 'black and white thinking' versus 'beyond the grey and into vibrant color thinking', the (alleged) scriptural take on homosexuality, a shout-out to the Baptists, and takes on questions such as 'Does God create gay people?", "What does a radically inclusive church look like?"and the perrenial "What would Jesus do?".
Phil is an ordained Disciples of Christ minister, the Co-Pastor of The Eucatastrophe, blogger for Huffington Post and Patheos, Co-CEO of Sogo Media, an Outlaw Theologian, author, public speaker, university lecturer and consultant. You can follow Phil on Facebook and Twitter.
Click through to youtube to watch the video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-gHTOpb5oc
Debonee talks with Pastor Phil Shepherd, aka the Whiskey Preacher about whether or not queer people should be included in church life. The conversation visits 'black and white thinking' versus 'beyond the grey and into vibrant color thinking', the (alleged) scriptural take on homosexuality, a shout-out to the Baptists, and takes on questions such as 'Does God create gay people?", "What does a radically inclusive church look like?"and the perrenial "What would Jesus do?".
Phil is an ordained Disciples of Christ minister, the Co-Pastor of The Eucatastrophe, blogger for Huffington Post and Patheos, Co-CEO of Sogo Media, an Outlaw Theologian, author, public speaker, university lecturer and consultant. You can follow Phil on Facebook and Twitter.
Zen and the Art of Guitar
Michael Goldman explores the intersection between Art & Faith from the perspective of a Soto Zen Priest (and second degree Judo blackbelt) and guitar student of teachers including Robert Fripp and Lester Bass. What does a faith practice and have in common with rock and roll? From the Alexander Technique to Coltrane, from Anders Parker to the oud, from Gurdjieff to gravity, descent into darkness & discipline, transcending control, the 28 Buddhas, The Hero's Journey, and connecting with something bigger... Goldman brings it on.
Michael Goldman explores the intersection between Art & Faith from the perspective of a Soto Zen Priest (and second degree Judo blackbelt) and guitar student of teachers including Robert Fripp and Lester Bass. What does a faith practice and have in common with rock and roll? From the Alexander Technique to Coltrane, from Anders Parker to the oud, from Gurdjieff to gravity, descent into darkness & discipline, transcending control, the 28 Buddhas, The Hero's Journey, and connecting with something bigger... Goldman brings it on.
Images of Trans People in Pop Culture
From Laverne Cox to Albert Nobbs (and this isn't even a sex episode!), psychotherapist Jayson Peterson, LMFT, joins Debonee to talk about images of transgender people in pop culture. We'll explore the good, the bad and the ugly attitudes that are reflected in TV and film, including "Orange is the New Black" (a given); "The Crying Game"; the problem with the Big Reveal; transphobia, homophobia and violence against transwomen; "Transamerica"; genitals versus gender identity; "Ma Vie en Rose", "Hedwig and the Angry Inch"; just the angry inch itself; "Boys Don't Cry"; pronouns; transmisogyny; and more...
From Laverne Cox to Albert Nobbs (and this isn't even a sex episode!), psychotherapist Jayson Peterson, LMFT, joins Debonee to talk about images of transgender people in pop culture. We'll explore the good, the bad and the ugly attitudes that are reflected in TV and film, including "Orange is the New Black" (a given); "The Crying Game"; the problem with the Big Reveal; transphobia, homophobia and violence against transwomen; "Transamerica"; genitals versus gender identity; "Ma Vie en Rose", "Hedwig and the Angry Inch"; just the angry inch itself; "Boys Don't Cry"; pronouns; transmisogyny; and more...
Out Late
Research shows that 20% of gay men will marry women. For gay people who come out later in their lives, this can be a scary and painful process for the whole family, but psychotherapist William Brown, APC, has encouraging words and advice on how to handle the transition, and find support for everyone involved. We discuss the "Armageddon factor" of realizing something needs to change; the guilt and shame; common experiences for the gay partner and the spouse; the role of societal, family and religious pressures; common fears; our fixation with perfection; the language of divorce; the "teenager effect" and much more.
William leads a therapuetic group called, "Out Late" in Atlanta.
www.williambrowncounseling.com
Research shows that 20% of gay men will marry women. For gay people who come out later in their lives, this can be a scary and painful process for the whole family, but psychotherapist William Brown, APC, has encouraging words and advice on how to handle the transition, and find support for everyone involved. We discuss the "Armageddon factor" of realizing something needs to change; the guilt and shame; common experiences for the gay partner and the spouse; the role of societal, family and religious pressures; common fears; our fixation with perfection; the language of divorce; the "teenager effect" and much more.
William leads a therapuetic group called, "Out Late" in Atlanta.
www.williambrowncounseling.com
Power Outage: Exploring the Idea of 'Higher Power' for LGBTQ Recovery in the 12 Steps
What might a 'Higher Power' look like to someone in the LGBTQ community, and how might addiction recovery be affected by sexual orientation?
Melanie Storrusten, LCSW joins Debonee to discuss how the idea of 'Higher Power' fits in with getting clean and sober, and why this can sometimes by a snag for LGBTQ individuals. Tackling the differences between 'religious' and 'spiritual', defining 'a God of my own understanding', and breaking away from the yoke of conservative Christianity, we take a look at the hurdles that could potentially pose problems in recovery. What is the Dark Forest, and why does anyone need to go there? Learn why allies need to come out too. And get stocked up on great resources for yourself or a loved one who may be struggling with alcohol or drug abuse.
Melanie is the owner and primary therapist at Align Wellness, former Director of Foundations Recovery Network in Midtown Atlanta, and a former Board Member of the LGBTQ Therapist Resource.
What might a 'Higher Power' look like to someone in the LGBTQ community, and how might addiction recovery be affected by sexual orientation?
Melanie Storrusten, LCSW joins Debonee to discuss how the idea of 'Higher Power' fits in with getting clean and sober, and why this can sometimes by a snag for LGBTQ individuals. Tackling the differences between 'religious' and 'spiritual', defining 'a God of my own understanding', and breaking away from the yoke of conservative Christianity, we take a look at the hurdles that could potentially pose problems in recovery. What is the Dark Forest, and why does anyone need to go there? Learn why allies need to come out too. And get stocked up on great resources for yourself or a loved one who may be struggling with alcohol or drug abuse.
Melanie is the owner and primary therapist at Align Wellness, former Director of Foundations Recovery Network in Midtown Atlanta, and a former Board Member of the LGBTQ Therapist Resource.
The Play Agenda: The Importance of Play in the LGBTQ Family
Dee Desnoyer, Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Play Therapist, joins Deb to talk about the importance of play therapy and creative play, especially in the LGBTQ family. Anyone can PLAY, and Dee explains why we need it, and how it can promote healing and growth. We connect it with the LGBTQ community, individuals and families: how can play help strengthen relationships and sense of self for individuals and families duing coming out, forming relationships, transitioning, etc. How can we change our culture through play? Does social media help or hurt?
Dee is also a qualified play therapy supervisor, and former board member of Atlanta's LGBTQ Therapist Resource. www.atlantacounseling.org
Dee Desnoyer, Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Play Therapist, joins Deb to talk about the importance of play therapy and creative play, especially in the LGBTQ family. Anyone can PLAY, and Dee explains why we need it, and how it can promote healing and growth. We connect it with the LGBTQ community, individuals and families: how can play help strengthen relationships and sense of self for individuals and families duing coming out, forming relationships, transitioning, etc. How can we change our culture through play? Does social media help or hurt?
Dee is also a qualified play therapy supervisor, and former board member of Atlanta's LGBTQ Therapist Resource. www.atlantacounseling.org